Vijay R Patel, 56, businessman
THERE are two sides to it. Why I love or hate women. Women are good and bad! I feel with our kind of generation today women have made it as corporate heads and they’ve got power to control men. In the old days women were only in homes but with the changes they are now more educated than men. But still I feel women never change and depend on men too much, a woman should be independent and so too a man, but in any relationship they should try to be friends, be it with mother, wife, sisters, friends.
With women I find there are a lot of whys, why this, why that and they don’t let an issue go and have long memory to bring it up when it suits them! They will bring in history, geography and so many stories which are inappropriate for me at least. Are only their views correct?
Men generally want to be generous but there is a woman to stop him. Women tend to forget facts. I hate women who want to control too much. Till today I have never asked so many whys to women, even to my wife, as they have asked me!
Most of the time I try to accommodate women and they are good at taking advantage. Men try to be specific but women are not specific with answers, men come to the point. Not women. If nobody is around to observe a woman will say anything and walk away without feelings, very good at pataoing as long as they are the happy beneficiaries. After all this I will say women are too much to deal with. In my father’s time he would say many things but my mother would say a few things only sometimes! Now it is reverse.